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Frisky Friday - Dating Challenges

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So I didn't know what to write about today. I've been a little busy to think about sex at all. Then I came across this article about a man who tricked women into having sex with him. The catch? He doesn't have a penis.

You might be wondering how they didn't notice. Well, he never let them see him naked. They always did in in the dark and otherwise they could only touch him with his clothes on. And he used objects to penetrate them. The objects weren't comfortable for the women most times. They said it hurt to have sex with them and just figured he didn't know what he was doing.

As you might expect, he's now on the Sex Offender Registry. Why? Because they consented to having sex, not penetration with an object.

Anyway, I'm thinking things could've gone so differently. Instead of outright lying like that, he could've given them oral. He could've done a damn good job of it. Then he could come clean about his issue and see if they were willing to try things out with a strap on.

Sure, some would've rejected it, but he wouldn't likely be on the SOR.

Here's the article if you want to read about the strange case.

Dating is scary these days.

Bottom line is that we all have emotional baggage and other life challenges. It doesn't have to be a deal breaker. Just communicate and see how that goes? There's undoubtedly someone out there who wouldn't care he doesn't have a penis.

R~

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